The 2 Tests That Reveal True Love

The 2 Signs of True Love

Love is one of the most powerful experiences a human being can have—but how do you know if what you’re feeling is real romantic love? According to Dr. Kevin Reese, there are two clear signs that reveal whether you’re truly in love with someone, even decades into a relationship.

1. You Want to Be Close, Always

The first sign is the overwhelming desire to simply be with them. Not just physically in the same room, but holding them, cuddling, lying on the couch or in bed, and not wanting to move. Work, phones, and distractions fade away. All you want is their presence. Dr. Reese calls this a heavenly feeling—one that everyone should experience at least once in their lifetime.

If, after years together, you no longer crave that closeness, it may be a sign that the love has faded.

2. You Want to Take Care of Them

The second sign of true love is the urge to protect and care for your partner. If they’re struggling financially, facing health issues, or dealing with problems at work, your first instinct is to step in and help. You’ll do whatever it takes to ease their burden.

If instead you find yourself rolling your eyes at their struggles, love may no longer be the driving force in the relationship.

A Third Sign?

While the first two are essential, Dr. Reese suggests a possible third: the desire to kiss. Unlike sex, which can exist without love, kissing is deeply intimate. When you want to spend long moments lost in each other’s embrace, it reinforces that the bond is real.

The Temperature Check of Love

So how do you know if you’re in love? According to Dr. Reese, ask yourself these questions:

• Do I want to hold and cuddle them endlessly?

• Do I feel a deep urge to take care of them?

• Do I still want to kiss them passionately?

If the answer is yes, then your love is alive and well. If not, it may be time to reflect on where your relationship stands.